I do not value my prospects, but I would rather have prospects I do not value and them me mine, than constant lose-lose which is hers. She will not seem to care how much the manipulation of their emotions and the self-pity repels other people. Because her abusiveness is part of a lifelong campaign of control and because she is careful to rationalize her abuse, it is extremely difficult to explain to other people what is so bad about her. People are so quick to laugh and brush it off when a son expresses pain, or hurt, or confusion at the hands of his NM. To outsiders she'll lie thoughtfully and deliberately, always in a way that can be covered up if she's confronted with her lie. Seriosly wanting to get divorced and stay away from them forever.
I am close to my fourth husband and my grown children. You dont have to ever choose but you could try to care for us both. I have about three close friends. Aggressive and hostile acts are paraded as thoughtfulness. In part, these women foster dissension between their children because they enjoy the control it gives them. You'll only lose about eight hundred dollars. On the rare occasions she is forced to acknowledge some bad behavior, she will couch the admission deniably. My NM is incredible. Unless the father has control over the narcissist and holds the family together, adult siblings in families with narcissistic mothers characteristically have painful relationships. My dad pays for all the bills including property they bought. Now she keeps digging her claws into my dad. I am usually right. You couldn't just be assigned a chore at the beginning of the week or of the day, instead, you had to do it on demand, preferably at a time that was inconvenient for you, or you had to "help" her do it, fetching and carrying for her while she made up to herself for the menial work she had to do as your mother by glorying in your attentions. He passed away in July of this year. If you fail to excuse her bad behavior and make her feel better, YOU are the bad person for being cold, heartless and unfeeling when your poor mother feels so awful. They will criticize the appearance of their daughters and daughters-in-law. August 27, at Palmatier, PsyD helps individuals work through their relationship and codependency issues via telephone or Skype. He is now 18 and can see what his Grandma is doing. I remember being a very bubbly, happy child before he was born and the center of attention. June 15, at 4: Trying not to burden them with your own internal pain. One time she and I got into a yelling match and I felt like attacking her, but instead I grabbed a knife and started cutting myself on my legs and arms…still no emotion or concern from her. January 2, at 4: As so often with narcissists, it is also a manipulative behavior. When I told people myself that I played when I was older, they were all surprised saying they didnt even know I played! You've hurt her terribly.
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